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"" For the past few months I have been in a rut. Shocking, right? Sheâs living her dream. Sheâs doing what she always wanted to do. She leaped. So whatâs the problem? The problem is, Iâve been struggling. I have been struggling with not letting the things that are wrong in life consume me. I have been struggling not to let the challenges that we are facing weigh me down. Iâve been in limbo between my career dreams and my dreams for my family, between wants and needs. Attempting to prioritize while not losing focus of what is at the heart of everything I do my desire to be there for my husband and our children â and not just physically there, but emotionally there. To be present. It is perplexing to me how my heart can be so full when I look at them and yet feel so heavy when I think about some of the decisions my husband and I have had to make during our marriage. There are moments when I will look up asking, âCan we please catch a break?â And then life will somehow remind me that even when it feels bad, it isnât that bad. Through it all, His grace abounds. An article by The Huffington Post referenced a study that found that couples are happier three years after the wedding. Three years. Last month, after almost eight years of dating and three years of marriage. Thatâs right, we turned three. According to the article, couples found that after the third year they began facing more âserious challenges.â The couples that were polled described year five as the hardest. They were tired. They had more work, and sometimes even having children played a role in this. Also noteworthy was the fact that the first year was good. Not surprising ⊠after all itâs the honeymoon period. For me, this study confirms something that I have known all along, something that life has shown me in three years of marriage and 29 years of living. There are high points and low points. There are times when it seems as though things are falling into place just as you had hoped, times when you are living your dreams and life isnât just good, life feels good. And then there are times when you find yourself bracing yourself because the hits keep coming. Another round of questions or group of people might report how glorious year seven was and how year nine looked a lot like year 10 because the workload didnât get lighter and kindergarten started. But the thing about surveys is â itâs all relative. There is no magic number that applies to every couple. Iâd like to think that the best years of marriage are the ones where you donât let life come in between you. The ones when you decide that despite being in the midst of the storm, you arenât going to jump ship. Instead you hold on to each other, your love, and your sanity and remember that storms end. And even during those times when you feel like you are drowning, your love keeps you afloat. You come out on the other side and realize that it wasnât all that bad. Sure it wasnât easy, but you got through it â together. My love for my family â for my husband, and his love for me â coupled with my faith, have kept me from sinking even during those days when I feel like Iâm drowning. And for me, our anniversaries are not just symbolic of the days where I felt like I was frolicking through a field of wildflowers hand in hand with my love, but a true reflection of our love and commitment for each other and the fact that weâve got a love that wonât quit. No matter what life throws at us. Itâs possible that our fifth year will challenge us in new ways â this year too. Life always seems to think that we are up for a challenge, but I believe our clear skies are coming. They always return. I think there is a time in your marriage when the growing pains stop. You are still growing, but it no longer hurts or feels awkward or uncomfortable. Instead, it becomes a matter of fact. It doesnât hurt anymore because you stop resisting. You wake up and realize that compromise isnât about giving in or losing. Itâs realizing that in the grand scheme of things, so many of the things that you thought mattered really donât. You realize that sometimes seeing your spouse smile means more than having your way. Sometimes you realize that your way was the wrong way and you realize how blessed you are to have a spouse who knew the right one. You realize that peace is what you should be striving for. You reach a point where you donât just say you accept your spouse for who they are, but you actually do. And you begin looking at them with the same eyes you looked at them with years ago when their shortcomings didnât matter â because you knew they were more than their weird habits or quirks. The two of you find freedom in being who you are, in accepting each other for who you are, and continue to grow separately but not apart. The rose-colored glasses emerge after being tucked away. And you realize that having them isnât all that bad. Sometimes you need to put on the glasses and allow yourself to see the things that are right in the world, in your life, in your marriage. So based on the findings of the study, if you havenât been married that long, you can brace yourself for year five because man it sounds like a doozy. Or you can simply live. Live knowing that life is a mixture of the sweet and the bitter. Remember that the bitter helps us to know just how good the sweet is. Sure, sometimes it hurts, but it doesnât always hurt. You can remind yourself that challenges can be overcome â life challenges, personal challenges, and marital challenges. And on those days where you feel like you are drowning, reach up. If youâve got a good partner, something tells me theyâll be there reaching back. One of the most beautiful things about companionship is the fact that you donât have to weather lifeâs storms alone. And by all means take out those rose-colored glasses again. Because they just might change the way you see that storm. Never-ending vs. almost over. Taking everything from you vs. washing away what didnât need to be there so you can see the beauty of what remains. But of course, thatâs three years of marriage talking. For those who have been married for longer, what do you think has made your good years good and the more difficult ones more bearable?
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